mollycoddle       
verb [ T ]  informal mainly disapproving uk/ˈmɒl.iˌkɒd.əl/ us/ˈmɑː.liˌkɑː.dəl/
 娇养,纵容,宠坏
to give someone too much care or protection
  You're not helping the children by mollycoddling them - they have to grow up sometime. 你娇惯孩子对他们没好处——他们总得长大的。 
 Synonyms: baby coddle (PROTECT)cossetindulgepamperspoil