domineering       
adjective  disapproving uk/ˌdɒm.ɪˈnɪə.rɪŋ/ us/ˌdɑː.məˈnɪr.ɪŋ/
 控制欲强的,极欲控制他人的
trying to control other people without thinking about their feelings
  I thought he was arrogant and domineering. 我认为他这个人非常傲慢,而且控制欲很强。 
 Opposites: slavish submissivesubservient